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The recent circular by Ministry of home affairs in India putting schools on high alert have fueled speculation about intelligence agencies apprehension of new terror threat. Terrorist attacks in our country and threats or realities of war are frightening experiences for all Indians and innocent people throughout the World. Children may be especially fearful that threatened or actual military action overseas will result in more personal loss and violence at home. Because repeated scenes of destruction of lives and property are featured in the news media, they understand that “enemies of the United States” and enemies of India can cause harm in India AS WELL AS TO NRI Indians Overseas.
Adults need to help children feel safe at a time when the world seems to be a more dangerous place. Parents and teachers in particular must help youngsters understand current events factually, how events do or do not impact their lives, and how to handle their emotional reactions. The degree to which children are affected will vary depending on personal circumstances. Children who have suffered a personal loss from, or had firsthand exposure to, terrorist acts or military actions will be much more vulnerable. Especially American/ British Children whose parents may be involved or serving with the armed forces in conflicts in Iraq/Afghanistan so are at greater risk and those children whose parents are involved in emergency response or public safety.
Children are not responsible for their parents actions so All children, however, are likely to be affected in some way by war or terrorism. For many, the guidance of caring adults will make the difference between being overwhelmed and developing lifelong emotional and psychological coping skills. Teachers and caretakers can help restore children’s sense of security by modeling calm and in-control behaviour. It is crucial to provide opportunity for children to discuss their concerns and to help them separate real from imagined fears. It is also important to limit exposure to media coverage of violence. It will also be important to teach children that not all from one particular religion or country are the same so that discrimination factors are erased from the child’s mind.
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